Why should you trust my advice?

I thought you’d never ask!

Here’s my story in a nutshell:

I lived and dating on the Upper West Side of Manhattan for 15 years before finally meeting my soulmate and marrying her. I experienced many of the challenges that you’re facing myself or through the eyes of my single friends. Since I married, around a decade ago, I met (and continue to meet) with hundreds of singles and learned about the challenges they are facing. But the most important part of this story is that I was able to overcome my challenges and enter into a healthy, long term relationship that turned into marriage. If you’re looking to do the same, then I’m confident that I can help you.

WARNING !!!

There’s something you should know about me: I’m honest and straightforward in my analysis and advice. My job is to give you the best and most honest advice possible, not to make you feel good about whatever you choose to do. If you can’t handle that, then you should probably look elsewhere for answers.

My pledge to you is that I will give you only the best and most straight forward and honest advice. I will do it in a sensitive and positive manner, but I will never simply tell you what you want to hear in order to satisfy you.

I’m so confident in my ability to help you that I will give you a full refund if you are not 100% satisfied with my advice. That means you have nothing to lose in giving this a shot.

A few testimonials

“I had been dating on the Upper West Side for for about 5 years before I met my fiancee. Dating had been a challenging experience and meeting Jon though wonderful, also had its challenges. During our courtship and up until our engagement, I discussed the goings on of the relationship with Arnie. He helped me put things into perspective.”

— Rachel H. (married)

“Arnie helped me tremendously throughout my dating process. His personalized advice and ability to be available at any time when I had a question or just needed to talk was so helpful. I knew I could reach out to him whenever I needed. His positive outlook also gave me such strength since dating can be such a roller coaster. Overall you can tell that he deeply cares about everyone he works with.”

— Melissa G. (married)

“I have truly benefited from communicating with R. Arnie, his ‘no nonsense’ style has added a degree of certainty through a very uncertain process. Getting dating advice on the ‘spur of the moment’ or answers to questions I’ve had has been so important. I have definitely benefited from Arnie’s experience and guidance through this difficult process and I cannot thank him enough for his help!”

— Teresa B.